I'm so terribly sorry - bwg - I had followed "Kaycee's" story for a long time, but my posts about her tended to be rather clinical, with links to grief and hospice organizations. I had felt a bit hard-hearted that I didn't feel emotionally tied to the story (unlike my feelings for Eve whose story affected me deeply).

I didn't shed tears when I heard the news of Kaycee's death, I did cry when I read Randy's post. I'm sure Randy's warmth and love will carry him through this shock - he has already shown that love and forgiveness deeply within him.

I forgive Debbie, too, because I realize how something like this could get out of hand, and my gut feeling is that she didn't do this to make fun of or hurt anyone.