We had a nice discussion about the difficultly we can all have when we are passionate about what we believe in - it's hard to find that balance within ourselves to know what is right for us, and to believe it with all our hearts - yet, still honor and recognize someone on another path, even when we believe that they are misguided. For me, it's about stopping to look for the bigger picture. That person who is sometimes very clearly on a distructive path - hurting themselves or others - may very well need that lesson in their lives. We all find our truths in amazing ways. Not all the paths to peace are filled with flowers and fluffy bunnies.
I have so much respect for those who have the courage to walk a difficult path - in those walks through hell, the potential for returning to the light is magnificent. So tough, though, during that walk!
After our conversation the other day, I had considered giving him the cold shoulder if he tried to apologize - but looking deeper, I realized that I really do understand that each new day really is a new day. I can accept his apology, look at him on his path with compassionate eyes, knowing that while it's not my path, it's the right one for him. I can also learn from the experience and be mindful if we discuss a hot topic again, letting things go sooner, stiving not for a lack of conflict, but striving for peace. Sometimes that means letting someone else have the floor and simply sending them love.
